Why Japanese People Keep Saying This While You Talk
To say oh, I see / is that so (the 'I'm listening' sound) in Japanese, say そうですか (sō desu ka).
They keep nodding and going 'un… sou desu ka' — are they even listening? YES.
そうですか
sō desu ka
oh, I see / is that so (the 'I'm listening' sound)
In this video
- 話してると、ずっと「うん、うん」って…聞いてる? Hanashiteru to, zutto “un, un” tte… kiiteru? They keep going 'un, un' while you talk — are they even listening?
- あれは「相槌」。ちゃんと聞いてるサインなんだ。 Are wa “aizuchi.” Chanto kiiteru sain nan da. That's 'aizuchi' — it's actually the 'I'm listening' signal.
- あなたも「そうですか」って言ってみて。 Anata mo “sō desu ka” tte itte mite. Try it yourself — drop in a 'sō desu ka' (oh, I see).
- 「へえ」「なるほど」もよく使うよ。 “Hee” “naruhodo” mo yoku tsukau yo. 'Hee' and 'naruhodo' (I see) work great too.
- うなずきながら言うと、ぐっと自然!保存してね👇 Unazukinagara iu to, gutto shizen! Hozon shite ne. Say it while you nod and you'll sound way more natural. Save this 👇
Why this phrase
Introduce aizuchi (active-listening sounds) — the constant nods and 'sou desu ka / hee / naruhodo' that confuse foreigners into thinking they're interrupted. Teach the one safe aizuchi a tourist can use to sound natural in any chat.
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